Narcissistic mothers do not have children for the same reasons the rest of us do. They do not look forward to the birth of their child because they can’t wait to see what they look like or what type of personality they will have or who they will become. I was conceived for 2 reasons, to keep my Dad from being drafted into the Vietnam war and she wanted more mirrors. Narc moms expect the children to love them unconditionally, but the reverse never happens. They have children to reflect their false images. They have children to use, abuse and control them. They don’t see their role as a mother as life’s biggest gift but rather a burden they didn’t expect. They thought they were creating little “mini-me’s.” They didn’t realize that somewhere around age 2, these human beings (not pieces of property) start to develop their own personalities, interests and desires. For the rest of us, that’s the best part of being a mom — watching our children grow into independent, confident, unique individuals.
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