I get so sick of my kids complaining that I'm not being fair with them and their siblings. But it affects me so I'm always trying to fix it and make it fair. I can grumble about them, but I actually do the same thing. That's the cause of my anger and impatience...when I feel that I'm not getting what is fair. I don't want to be duped or taken advantage of. But what if I was able to let that go? To stop the fight for fair? For equal?