My ex husband rampantly cheated on me. It is easy for me to read this and think of people like him. But when I REALLY read it, I'm guilty too. Jesus is saying that it isn't just a checklist anymore...it's a heart issue. And that makes me just as guilty. I could say he is a worse guilty and I'm a not-as-bad guilty. But in the end, guilty is guilty and guilty needs to be dealt with right?