Show notes
Inspired by Khadija Mbowe's video analysis of Netflix's The Ultimatum, the girls talk about love and possessiveness, hierarchy within love relationships, how the concept of "the one" stems from a scarcity mindset and much more. Cindy also expounds a little more on relationship anarchy, polyamory and ethical non monogamy. (PS// while editing another episode, Cindy mistakenly tampered with this one and deleted a short segment. A really short one, like 1, maybe 2 seconds. My sincerest apologies)Resources: You don't own your partners 😗 The Ultimatum, love and possession analyzed by Khadija MboweThe Ultimatum' & Supported Self-Sabotage by Tee Noir All About Love by bell hooksMany Love: A Memoir of Polyamory and Finding Love(s) by Sophie Lucido JohnsonPleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good by by Adrienne Maree Brown.


