Once again, we broach the premise of the show.  Time and time again we have all been disappointed with people in our lives disrespecting us.  Keeping it real and discussing topics of:I have a friend, and his mom is mad at himRespect should be mutualSet boundariesSelf-love is the key that keeps up groundedRemove you from my spaceThat sh!t can boil and boilPractice boundaries soonerTalk calmly and succinctly… that’s the bestDon’t engageClean your room right nowOur family knows our triggersLow-maintenance friends are the bestIf it comes back, kill it, stomp that sh!tEventually, the mule kicks backIt’s almost that we can't stress this topic and solution enough.  We both go through it almost daily.  We hope this shed a little more light on your journey through the hills and valleys of life.  Take care and practice some of that self-love more and more each day!Music: Out of Flux, CHONKLAP, Artlist.io

What a barn burner.  This is definitely one of our favorite podcasts in the 15 MOGNF Podcast space.  You know it can get a little crazy and we do not disappoint!  Discussions of:Choose the family you want in your lifeSelf-love is the foundationSquirrel and ADHDQuality vs quality of friendsHamburglarSquirt colaJust the tipKissing cousinsBe your own happy selfStay in your laneSet your phone to vibrate and pull to the sideYou don’t have to be a victim of your surroundingsAs usual, it does get a little crazy but that’s what it is all about.  Our ‘nutty’ ride talking about our views on friends and family is definitely unusual.  What are your views?  Hummmmm?

Well, we went ahead and kept the crazy intro just to show you what usually happens when we start a podcast just after another one.  Once I figured out what I was doing, we both dove right in with our friend theories.  Topics of:Not all your friends mixSarcastic and cynicalNo emotion with textingToss the salad - the cucumber saladGirl crush on introGone through hard times togetherEveryone is not supposed to be your friendMean GirlsDon’t blame the gator even if you look like chickenBackstage passes like a groupieSometimes people are in your life for that space and timeBig guys are never wrongAll or nothing from JerseyLearn from itWe realized that sometimes we are a friend to a fault.  It takes time to get ‘unstuck’ and we understand you can’t change overnight.  It is a process.  Just watch out for the gator in the pond!

Pardon the less-than-stellar audio.  Apologies.  This podcast should have been broken into two shows.  What to do with the people in your life that don’t listen to you\?  Good luck with that!  Topics of:The asshole thresholdTaint no one listeningDon’t hide the pastThe huge divide between the haves and the have notsWe all want to be heardBe willing to learnGenerational - good and badTeach meRead a bookThe curtains and the drapesEvery group gets a beatdown somewhereAgree to disagreeNeed more actively listeningPeople are so impatientAll we can say is to be patient with your friends and family.  And once again, good luck with that!  Enjoy!

Friends, foes, and/or family will suck the life out of you if you let them.  This podcast deals with the methods and mindset of not heading down that path and the art of becoming more selfish with your time for your own sake.   Topics of:Do what you loveFill your own love bucketInternal monologueSelfish vs selflessNot all your friends mixGet a hobbyQuiet quitting?Asking for forgiveness rather than permissionIt’s not about being an assholeHave some personal momentTaking time for yourself is paramount in life.  We always say, if you don’t take care of yourself, you can’t adequately take care of the ones you love.  Be selfish!  

With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, we decided to do a 15MOGNF Podcast on love and loving.  Straight off DD113, we dive into giving boundaries and expecting manners while dealing with love.  Topics of:Teach you manners, teach you loveEverybody has experienced some type of dramaTeach a man to fishIf your love tank is empty, you can’t spread loveYou must be equally yokedRealize when your friends suckShe is a no longer…A side friendThe pattern of loving yourself more over timeThere’s a Judas among usStart to right the wrongs by loving yourself firstEmpty parking spacesThe most important person you love is yourselfBrain ImodiumThis episode is pretty special due to the fact that at the end Rachel has some pretty big knowledge to drop - and has a brain fart.  We have them all the time and usually edit them out, but to show our authenticity we left it in to show that we are real and actually human.  We are looking forward to un-farting that brain and getting that knowledge in the next episode. Enjoy

“Always trust everyone to be themselves, but trust in the fact that you can see them well.  It takes too much energy to not trust someone.  Trust a snake to bite you.  Trust a liar to lie to you.  Trust a thief to steal from you.  Trust them to be them, BUT know them when you see them!”   DMXI saw the above quote on my Facebook page from my friend Adrian Abeyta.  Hence the topic of our podcast today.  Thanks, Adrian.   Trusting people in this social climate is hard to do.  But, you need to know how and when to cut bait quickly if things go down the rabbit hole.  Topics of:When people show you their true colors, believe themHope cancels it allDon’t try to fix themFixer-uppers are for HGTVIf you don’t like people, then don’t do customer serviceJersey vibe and coffee talkControl backspaceKarma is a bitchTrust it, accept it, deal with it, and move alongSee how they talk to their kids, friends, family, and coworkersPodcast songsYou get one shotWe live in a selfish societyYou don’t know what better is if you’ve had sh!tty all your lifeCharm SchoolWe hope this podcast shines some light on your iffy relationships and to act accordingly.  Good luck with that.  Peace….Music: Out of Flux, CHONKLAP, Artlist.io

Fresh off the Divorce Devil Podcast #111, we borrow the subject of having hangovers in life.  They usually happen after some type of negative event so you don’t have to have been drinking to have a life hangover.  Giving no fucks is paramount in handling life’s hangovers.  It puts them into perspective.  Discussions of:Each hangover is differentThree nunsSulfites in wineInsecurities can screw up a relationshipGet past her arm spanKeep it moving Self-care and happiness are not overratedHolidays were her liquorThe small stuff mattersJealousy is a negative emotion in any amountA pain, a death, or a divorceYou can look at the menuOne of the most important things we presented in the podcast is that you fight the cynicism of not totally giving a fuck by actually caring a little.  We don’t advocate totally not caring about things, but not caring enough to exhibit some type of self-care.  Enjoy.Music: Out of Flux, CHONKLAP, Artlist.io

Rachel is on the back end of COVID.  Since we are not in the studio together we decided to continue our Divorce Devil Podcast #113 into 15MOGNFP013.  Trying to heal from any sickness, let alone COVID, is tough when you have other entities pulling you every which way.  You can’t physically take care of others if you don’t take care of yourself.  Discussions of:You have to give no fucks about the world around you when you are healingIn sickness and in healthThe airplane is going downPhone a friendDanish Christmas cookies from the tinReach out to your tribeOne step at a timeMartyrs suck - they are always tiredMen having babiesBetty David eyesUse your own lifelineYou have to be ok with being sickOne key component we agreed on was you have to take care of yourself.  Getting well always involves some type of selfishness.  Stay safe and well during this cold and flu season!Disclaimer: This podcast is not intentionally making fun or lessening the seriousness of COVID.  We are mainly talking about sickness in general.  Thanks.Music: Out of Flux, CHONKLAP!,  Artlist.io

This is our first attempt at doing a part two on 15MOGNF Podcast.  Rachel, Jodie, and I are still hanging in there grappling topics of:Where did Jodie get her potty mouth from?Targeted use of profanity to ease painProfanity can reset the brainJust send the ashes in the mailDear Asshole - prewritten lettersFree therapyBe able to share your story and not be aloneDoing kind things sometimes changes people’s livesWhat does Jodie preach the most? - journaling and exerciseCBT - Cognitive Behavioral TherapyLife’s pearlsFrom a place of passionEat a tub of Ben’s and Jerry’sSometimes commonality can help others find their voiceWe had a blast interviewing Jodie.  Thank you for taking the time to hang and talk with us.  Her contact and website info is below!Jodie’s Website!