瞎BB｜儿时的亲密无间——长大后的亲密有间。

Chick Chat | As We Grow Up —— From Childhood Intimacy to Boundaries.

• 大家好！欢迎来到《00后大师》的第八期。本期我们想来聊一聊“讨好”这个话题。尽管不想将某种行为标签化，但相信不论在职场、学习，或是与亲人、朋友、恋人的相处中，每个人都免不了需要经历“自我暴露”和“相互碰撞”的历程。
• Hello, everyone! Welcome to the 8th episode of "Masters Of 00s." In this episode, we'd like to discuss the topic of "people-pleasing." Although we don't want to label certain behaviors, we believe that whether in the workplace, in education, or in relationships with family, friends, or partners, everyone inevitably experiences the process of "self-disclosure" and "collisions with others."

• 只要与他人建立关系，便一定会有摩擦。如何把握其中的距离，如何建立一个好的关系，是一个看似简单但复杂，看似复杂却也简单的议题。
• Whenever we establish relationships with others, there will inevitably be friction. How to maintain a distance and build a good relationship is a seemingly simple but complex, seemingly complex yet simple topic.

• 亲密关系好比一场冒险——没有真实就没有真正的关系，而真实意味着不完美。当我们褪去俗世的光环、向他人袒露脆弱，便等同于将自己置于危难之中，接受被攻击或被接纳的结果——不过话说回来，维护自我的边界是一种勇气，那么让渡边界又何尝不是一种胸怀。
• Intimate relationships are like an adventure — without authenticity, there are no real relationships, and authenticity means imperfection. When we strip away the worldly halo and expose our vulnerabilities to others, it's like putting ourselves in danger, accepting the consequences of being attacked or accepted. However, maintaining boundaries is a kind of courage, so perhaps relinquishing boundaries is also a kind of generosity.

• *感谢清晨牵引红线小饼。
• *Special thanks to The Early Morning Guiding Red Thread Little Cake.