Why are we so insecure? Everyone has insecurities. That doesn’t make a person better than the other...Why are some women so quick to raise their hand to be a “Pick me” type. So what if a woman can’t cook it doesn’t make her less of a candidate to have a man. In the words of Beyonce “ Pretty hurtsShine the light on whatever's worsePerfection is the disease of a nationPretty hurtsShine the light on whatever's worseTryna fix somethingBut you can't fix what you can't seeIt's the soul that needs the surgery”