What do you regret from your 20s?  What goals were set to have accomplished by 30 and were they achieved?  What does success/growth mean to you?  What needs to be accomplished in your 30s to set yourself up for success in your 40s?  Is there anything we should be growing out of in our 30s?  What has 30 years of life taught you?  How has the pursuit of a suitable spouse changed now being in your 30s?