Show notes
Join us on today’s episode as Carlette and Kathy discuss How Women Win after hearing from Butler University Head Women’s Volleyball Coach and Current President of the American Volleyball Coach’s Association, Sharon Clark
WINNING STRATEGIES
1. The male system is based on hierarchy. The female system is based on a web of interconnected relationships. Men can often go back and forth at each other on the court or field and be completely fine afterwards, whereas women may encounter similar disputes and the damage within the team will still be occurring weeks later.
2. As women, when we get hurt, we either withdraw or attack; however, as women we have also been socialized not to attack. Anger and aggressiveness is penalized within the female paradigm. If you are hurt, you bury it and do not express any type of aggressive feelings. We must teach our athletes how to healthily express aggression between each other as well as how to emotionally accept aggression directed at you.
3. What do you want and what is your plan to get there? As a coach, it is your job to help athletes discover this within themselves, either as an athlete or also as a person depending on your coaching style. For athletes, coaches cannot decide these things themselves. They may have an idea of where they want you to end up in your career, but without your own personal goals and desired outcomes, it will be a struggle getting there.
Stay tuned THIS FRIDAY to hear Kathy and Carlette Team Up with our next guest on How Women Win Our Way with. Want to G.I.V.E.H.O.P.E. to other women by sharing how you win?
Learn More Here: www.championwellbeing.com/how-women-win-survey
Watch the full episode: https://youtu.be/kz4l9QJboQo
WINNING STRATEGIES
1. The male system is based on hierarchy. The female system is based on a web of interconnected relationships. Men can often go back and forth at each other on the court or field and be completely fine afterwards, whereas women may encounter similar disputes and the damage within the team will still be occurring weeks later.
2. As women, when we get hurt, we either withdraw or attack; however, as women we have also been socialized not to attack. Anger and aggressiveness is penalized within the female paradigm. If you are hurt, you bury it and do not express any type of aggressive feelings. We must teach our athletes how to healthily express aggression between each other as well as how to emotionally accept aggression directed at you.
3. What do you want and what is your plan to get there? As a coach, it is your job to help athletes discover this within themselves, either as an athlete or also as a person depending on your coaching style. For athletes, coaches cannot decide these things themselves. They may have an idea of where they want you to end up in your career, but without your own personal goals and desired outcomes, it will be a struggle getting there.
Stay tuned THIS FRIDAY to hear Kathy and Carlette Team Up with our next guest on How Women Win Our Way with. Want to G.I.V.E.H.O.P.E. to other women by sharing how you win?
Learn More Here: www.championwellbeing.com/how-women-win-survey
Watch the full episode: https://youtu.be/kz4l9QJboQo